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Post by wink279 on Nov 28, 2006 21:11:49 GMT -5
It says talk about whatever you feel like, so here I go. There's this random topic I've been thinking about. Human nature, it is really rather annoying at times. For example, if someone says something, it's human nature to try to out do them. Even maybe if you're not doing it out loud. Another human nature is to judge upon looks. Whether they look nice, or like a prep, or maybe you just don't like them. It's just little bits of these parts of human nature that I've noticed. Do you guys have any idea what I'm talking about? Have you guys ever noticed some part of human nature that either ticks you off or just makes you want to stop and smile? Yeah well, post them here! Cause I'm bored... -_-
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Post by SoraKonjou on Nov 28, 2006 22:14:05 GMT -5
Yeah, I've noticed this a lot, actually... Kinda sad... I have to admit, I do judge people by their looks, but I remind myself I don't know them. I'm pretty willing to talk to anyone if they want to talk to me, as long as I'm not being made fun of. ((Which is quite often.))
Something very similar happened at the beginning of the year... Met this new girl, her first name is my middle name. Her appearance told me she was nice, and she was when I first started talking to her. We became quick friends, and she met a guy in our school. She fell head-over-heels for him and now she won't shut her mouth. It's very annoying. Well, I'm kind of happy she's leaving me alone because as she does is whine. And to make matters worse, she's becoming friends with the people I hate. Ugh.
Human Nature... Something that makes me want to stop and smile is kindness... I can tell how much pain a person's been through by their attitude and personality. The more kind and caring, the more pain has happened. The more snobby and mean, the less pain. Because, the truth is ((I believe)) is that pain stays with you, always. In physical wounds, yes, it heals and goes away, but in memories, it resides. Whenever we remember that moment, the pain comes back with it. Get me so far?
Alright, well, this is the same way with other feelings. It remains with the memory and surfaces when the memory is remembered. So, when a person is kind, they try to make other people happy, correct? To make someone's day, or to make a frowning person smile, to make someone laugh, it sometimes gives you a good feeling and that feeling is buried with the memory of the smile, or the laugh. So, these happy memories are there to try and conceal the bad ones. Everyone wants more happy memories to remember than bad memories. Does that make any sense?
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Post by wink279 on Nov 30, 2006 19:46:41 GMT -5
Yeah, I get what you're saying and it makes sense. Sometimes it can be backwards though. My best friend caught this girl slipping a tear out by accident when speaking about her mother. Her mother doesn't pay her much attention, and when she does she's not very nice. My best friends and I actually suspect that's why the girl is so rude and mean to everyone. It might work as an outer sheild for her. But I get what you're saying, I just think it might swing both ways.
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Post by SoraKonjou on Nov 30, 2006 20:01:27 GMT -5
It does, but, I mean... That's influence. Parents play a HUGE role in their children's future. Not just with the raising of the child, making sure he or she is living, I mean, on how they think, how they feel about certain things, musical perfercence, policital views, ect.
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Post by wink279 on Dec 1, 2006 15:23:53 GMT -5
That's true, . I really shouldn't be talking much about it cause my friends don't even think I'm human most of the time. Heh, my parents never played as big of a role as they could have. When I was younger, my dad was never home. Heck he's barely home now. I just entered the real world last year. Before that I knew nothing of the world. I don't think I even knew who was the president... and don't even talk to me about the average stuff like music. My friends helped me out though, so I'm much better than I was a little while ago. I'm still exploring everything of course. But I really think that's true. I didn't really have my parents, and when I did they were just doing the parent jobs. Helping with home work, cooking dinner, and stuff like that. I didn't have an opinion on most anything... so parents do play a huge part in a child's life.
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misundrstd666
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Post by misundrstd666 on Dec 1, 2006 22:23:31 GMT -5
Okay..I had the urge to join in on this conversation since at the moment you're talking about parents...if that's okay...because i totally agree with you two. And..okay if you must don't pay any attention but i'm going to give example's from personal experience. Trust me..my family is so messed up, i dont even know where to begin. My mom and dad have been divorced since i was like two(first "excellent" example for a kid). For about 10 years of my life, my mom pretty much didn't know who she was and when she was with this one guy..he literally could've killed me and my sister..becuz when my mom broke up with him..he went to jail for killing someone by gun(second "excellent" example for a kid). And then there's my dad...oh boy...he drinks..he used to smoke..still does but hardly...he's been married 5 f*ckin times!!! But now both parents have their lives started to straighten out...but they're only 17 years older than me...they got married about a month before i was born..it's crazy...
ANYWAY!! i'm sorry..but i needed to get that all out when i saw this...
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